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‘Tis The Season For Holiday Tipping: Who To Tip And How Much

There’s a lot to think about, organize and implement this time of year. Take a deep breath and tackle one thing at a time. When it comes to gifting outside…

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There's a lot to think about, organize and implement this time of year. Take a deep breath and tackle one thing at a time. When it comes to gifting outside your family and friends, we could all use a little advice. 'Tis the season for holiday tipping. Here's who to tip and how much, according to the experts.

First thing we all need to do, if you don't have holiday cards already made, is buy some, or make some. You can put your gift card or money for a tip in it with a quick note of appreciation. Etiquette expert Emily Post recommends a short handwritten note of two -three sentences is should always accompany a tip or gift.

The Nice List 

Now, you need to decide how much you can afford for holiday tipping, and who is on your "nice" list. Typically, tips are given to those who you encounter or work with on a regular basis. Your favorite bartender or waitress at your regular spot should be considered. Babysitters, caretakers and dog walkers are all deserving of your monetary appreciation. You mail carrier or regular delivery person is "nice list" worthy, as is your hair stylist or barber. Teachers, handyman (or woman) and house cleaner should be considered.

Expert Advise

Emily Post says you should consider the relationship first and foremost. From the number of years you've been using the service or person to your relationship with them. Here are a few things from the article for tip relationship considerations:

  • The quality and frequency of the service you receive.
  • Your relationship with the service provider.
  • Location: Tipping averages tend to be higher in larger cities.
  • Length of service: The number of years you’ve been using the service.

I consulted FastCompany for a itemized tip list, to help all of us! Check this out, direct from their website:

Service ProfessionalSuggested Tip or Gift Options
Au Pair or nannyTip equal to 1 to 2 weeks’ pay
BabysitterTip equal to average pay for a single babysitting session
Day care center staffGift card of about $25 or small consumable gift
Dog walkerTip equal to 1 to 3 dog walking sessions, depending on frequency
Hairdresser, manicurist or masseuseTip equal to the cost of one session
House cleanerTip equal to 20% to 100% of the cost of a one cleaning session
Personal trainerTip equal to the cost of one session
Postal worker/mail carrierNon-cash gift worth less than $20 or small consumable gift (such as baked goods)
School bus driverSmall gift
TeacherGift card of about $25 or small consumable gift

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